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Why do women melt if they see you have big strong hands? Massage skills would be a bonus but it still doesn't answer the question apart from it being masculine. Any answer ladies? Anyway, some massage tips for you dudes and dudettes our there:

Massage the back with long smooth strokes along the spine. Most people equate massages with back rubs, so they'll expect this as part of the massage. It's great way to release tension in the spine and set the pace for the rest of the massage. Follow the back rub by massaging the buttocks. Rub the butt by using your elbow to stroke the hip, then move to the gluteus maximus. Do this gently at first, but increase pressure if your partner likes it.

For you ladies out there perform a complete massage on a male partner by having him lie face down on the bed or massage table. Straddle him with your legs to his sides. Keep your hands flat, and move them in circles on his back, and then move up to his neck and shoulders. Keep your hands well-lubricated with hot, scented oil. Knead your male partner's back, shoulders and neck with the flat of your thumbs. Massage his buttocks, legs and inner thighs using the kneading method, and then end with small circles. Turn him over and massage his face and chest.

It's slightly different while massaging the girls. Massage them while she's wearing her bikini or bra and thong. Rub her back and shoulders above the bra. Then undo the back of the bra and rub her neck. Knead her ankles, calves and legs with small circles, then turn her over and massage her breasts, nipples and stomach.

That's it folks. After that it up to you two for whatever extra-curricular activities that entails. My job is done.

Ps: I'm still trying to have big hands. Perhaps that's why the ladies aren't exactly running to me. Sigh!