friends are forever

Maintaining a successful fuck-buddy arrangement can be tricky, but the benefits are worth the effort. Being able to call on a girl you trust for some hot, noncommittal sex is a great thing indeed. However, once you’ve found the right girl, someone who is sexually adventurous and interested in unconventional relationships, how do you maintain the passion without making her feel used or slutty? What exactly is the etiquette?

Give Her Advance Call on Booty Call

You shouldn’t assume she’s available 24 hours a day whenever you want to get laid. Calling her at 2 a.m. as you stumble out of the bar is not the best idea. Etiquette will tell you that she’s not a last resort at last call. Come on chaps, give the girl a advance notice. Plus, if you’re messy drunk at every booty call, she may soon stop answering your calls. Plan ahead and show up at her door at a reasonable hour.

Built Up and Wind Down from Booty Call

You should always give the girl a little consideration. As such, you don’t have to immediately pull her into the bedroom every time you get together. Offer her a glass of wine and let her get comfy first. A little chitchat to help make the situation a little less tense wouldn't go amiss. Afterwards, let her take her time putting herself back together; she may want to shower, fix her hair or makeup. Don’t run as soon as the condom comes off if you’re at hers. Bad.

Come Prepared

Come with proper protection. Crash helmet, whip, blindfold, ropes, First-Aid kit or even the old fashion condom. Scout motto: Be Prepared.

Don't Pull Porn Moves on Her

Don't be tempted to take out your top 10 porn vids and watch it while you're with her. She may be more open to these acts than the average girl, but you shouldn’t spring these things on her without getting an idea of what she thinks about them.

BE DISCREET

If you happen to run into her on the street, don’t make your relationship to her obvious to everyone around you. Keep hands by your side. No grabbing her ass keeping the kisses on the cheeks. No innuendo or blatant sex talk.